HOW DO WE TALK ABOUT THE THINGS THAT ARE HARD TO TALK ABOUT?
Perhaps we must begin in a small, dark space: a cave, an underground tunnel, a windowless room. That way we’re forced to move with care, to use words thoughtfully and listen with honest ears. We should breathe softly in such a space; there’s no room for hot air. And when our limbs cramp, when we become disoriented, we have to stay put, with only…